Your Guide to a Relaxed and Beautiful Portrait Session

The following tips are designed to help you feel relaxed, prepared, and confident going into your portrait session.

If you’re preparing for a newborn session, be sure to also peek at my newborn studio or in-home newborn prep guide, which is full of tips to make your little one’s session as smooth and cozy as possible.

Trust the Process

One of the best things you can do during your session is simply trust the process. You do not need to worry about what to do or how you look; that is my job. I will guide you every step of the way, from where to stand to how to interact naturally.

The most beautiful images happen when you relax, enjoy the moment, and connect with the people you love.

Come Relaxed and Have Fun

The best photos happen when you are simply being yourself. You do not need to worry about posing perfectly or staring at the camera the entire time. Some of the most meaningful images come from genuine moments such as laughter, cuddles, movement, and connection.

I keep overly posed photos to a minimum and focus on natural interaction. Especially with children, short attention spans mean the more playful and relaxed we are, the better your photos will turn out.

Rest and Recharge

Being well-rested makes a huge difference in how you look and feel. Try to get a good night’s sleep before your session.

For little ones, naps and a full tummy make a world of difference. Well-rested clients, big and small, help everything go smoothly and keep the mood light.

Give Yourself Extra Time

Allowing extra time to get ready helps reduce stress and sets a calm tone for the session. Arriving a few minutes early allows you to settle in, breathe, and ease into the session.

If your location is new to you, leave a little buffer time for traffic, parking, or walking. Feeling calm before we begin helps make the session more relaxed and enjoyable.

Hair, Makeup, and a Little Self-Care

If you are planning a haircut or color, do it at least a week or two before your session so there is time to adjust if needed.

If you use self-tanner, try to apply it at least a few days in advance. Fresh tans can photograph stronger than expected, and natural skin tones always look beautiful.

Professional hair and makeup can be a wonderful confidence booster, but doing it yourself works beautifully as well. Consider going slightly more polished than your everyday look so your features photograph nicely while still feeling like you.

Choose Comfortable Wardrobe

Comfort is key. Since we may be walking, sitting, or moving around during your session, choose outfits that allow you to move freely and feel confident.

Neutral tones, soft textures, and muted colors photograph beautifully and keep the focus on your connection rather than busy patterns or logos.

For outdoor sessions, wear comfortable shoes and feel free to bring dress shoes to change into when we are ready to shoot.

Undergarments are just as important. Make sure straps or shapewear will not show through clothing. When you feel good in what you are wearing, it truly shows in your photos.

Tips for Children

It is normal for children to take time to warm up, especially when meeting someone new. Talking to them ahead of time can help them feel more comfortable and excited.

Make sure kids are well rested and fed. Bring snacks, comfort items, or a favorite toy, and consider an extra outfit for babies and toddlers.

Bribery is welcome. A small reward or treat after the session often works wonders.

Including Pets

Pets are always welcome for outdoor or in-home sessions. If you plan to include your furry friend, let me know ahead of time so I can plan accordingly.

It helps to bring someone to manage them when they are not in the photos, along with water, treats, or anything else they may need.

Props

Props are never required, but they can be a fun and meaningful addition. I often bring blankets or small seating options for outdoor sessions, and studio sessions are fully styled and ready when you arrive.

If there is something special you would like to include, a blanket, heirloom, or sentimental item, I am always happy to incorporate it. Just let me know ahead of time so we can plan accordingly.

Weather and Outdoor Sessions

For outdoor sessions, dress in layers if the weather is cool and bring jackets, hats, or blankets as needed. On sunny days, sunglasses, hats, and water are helpful. On rainy days, we may adjust locations or timing to stay comfortable.

Being prepared for the elements helps everyone enjoy the session more.

What to Bring

Depending on your session type, consider bringing:

• Water for everyone, including pets

• Snacks or treats for children

• Favorite toys or comfort items for babies

• Extra outfits or layers

• Any meaningful items you want included in the photos

  
  

Session Expectations

Most sessions last about 60 to 90 minutes for families and maternity and 2 to 3 hours for newborns to accommodate feeding, changing, and baby’s comfort.

You do not need to worry about posing or perfect smiles. I will guide you and make it easy.

Final Thoughts

Your portrait session should feel relaxed, meaningful, and enjoyable. A little preparation goes a long way, but the most important thing is showing up ready to enjoy the experience with the people you love.

If you have any questions leading up to your session, I am always here to help. I cannot wait to create something beautiful with you.